I've got the most scaredy cat wife in the world when it comes to me doing things, but she lets me reload. I just had to keep telling her how safe it was and how I'm super paranoid so I'm very careful. She didn't care for it too much but when my Lee kit came in the mail, there wasn't much she could do about it and now she thinks it's kinda cool. She walks in and sees me hard at work on my little single stage press, which looks totally harmless, and she's gotten used to it.
I've learned to use it to my advantage. Last year I started a cafe racer motorcycle project. She HATES motorcycles. She's probably in the garage right now hiding my tools and taking parts off the bike so I'll never be able to ride it and get myself killed by some half blind little old lady. I told her the other day I was thinking about selling it so I could put more time and money into my guns and shooting. She told me I could buy a MILLION guns if I got rid of that bike....BAZINGA!!!